Wednesday, April 12, 2017

Last chance...and quick updates!

I just heard that over 400 Team Timmer shirts have been ordered!! We know you will wants yours, too. You have until tonight to make your purchase...don't miss out!

Remember, if you are not in the area or able to pick your shirts up from Lincoln Elementary on the 26th, Chris and I will gladly make sure we get them to you!


Also,here are just a couple of quick updates:


Sam
Some of you know that we have hit some "bumps in the road" with Sam. He is not responding well to medications. We have an appointment coming up in Ann Arbor to look at next steps; we head to Ann Arbor, but Boston Children's Hospital is also covering his care, so the neurologists there will be able to offer input. It's great having 2 facilities that are working together for him. Also, we found out that Sam's genetic testing (chromosomal array) came back abnormal; he has extra chromosome tissue. So, we will be heading back to the geneticist to now "read" his genes to look for syndromes.

Kai
Kai has been "holding his own" for the last little while. But, as soon as we think he's in a good place, something usually comes up. He has had an increase in GI bleeding and pain lately. So, I head to Ann Arbor twice next week with him.

Jen
I meet with medical oncologists bright and early next Monday morning before heading to Ann Arbor with Kai. Because we're pretty loyal to U of M at this point (Go Blue!), I will also be heading to Ann Arbor to meet with the tumor review board and oncologists there soon. Of course, we can't forget about radiology oncology; I have appointments set up next week to meet with them.


We continue to thank everyone who has supported us in anyway!

Tuesday, April 11, 2017

Team Timmer shirts


After my cancer diagnosis,  my Lincoln Elementary colleagues graciously designed  t-shirts to support our family through all of our medical journeys. Online ordering for Team Timmer shirts has been open for a couple of weeks and ordering ends tomorrow, April 12!

So far, a couple hundred shirts have been ordered...and we know you will want one, too!


Below is the link to place your online order. When ordering, you will be asked for the "player name"; just put your name---this helps know who the order is going to! Also, shirts will be delivered to Lincoln Elementary, however, Chris and I are more than willing to ship them to you. If you need us to ship them, please just let us know (you can message either of us on FB or email chrisjensam@gmail.com).

https://teamtimmer.itemorder.com/

We appreciate all of the support!

Saturday, March 25, 2017

Quick Update

Happy Saturday morning!

Chris and I just wanted to share a really quick update since next week is surgery week. The plan right now is for surgery to take place bright and early Tuesday morning. I'm sure my sentiments will change as we're actually on the way to the hospital, but I'm so ready!

For the past couple of weeks I have been sick (flu and sinus infection) and every time I think I'm finally better, a fever comes back.  I have had this fever just hanging around now for 9 days. We found out yesterday that there is infection in the blood stream. That probably explains why I've felt so crummy! Anyway, we're working on fighting that so that it doesn't change Tuesday's plan at all. So, we'd appreciate a quick prayer that this doesn't set us back.

Obviously, the treatment plan (chemo/radiation) will be determined after surgery.

Again, we just want to thank everyone for all of the prayers and support.We definitely feel the love!
Also, I just have to share this picture...but my 3rd graders did this on the playground. They must have known I needed that yesterday!


Thanks!

Thursday, March 9, 2017

more testing!

Just a quick update since my last post...

While I was supposed to have surgery this afternoon, we had small change in plans. I am now scheduled for an MRI tomorrow. With the MRI, the surgeon and oncologist are looking for a couple of things, including any signs that the cancer has metastasized. I will also be having genetic testing done to check for the BRCA mutation. Both tests are recommended because, according to the surgeon, I'm "just a kid" (tell that to my wrinkles and crackling joints in the morning!). Both tests are expedited, so we should have results very soon....and results will impact treatment options after surgery. Additionally,because I will have lymph nodes removed during surgery I will begin occupational therapy on Monday. Therapy will continue after surgery as well.

The one new piece of information that we have learned during my pre-op appointment yesterday is that it is likely that I will have my ovaries removed, too.


As I was leaving yet another appointment this afternoon I was feeling grumpy about the entire situation. I'm in quite a bit of pain, so that doesn't help matters any. But, I quickly checked Facebook and was overwhelmed by what I saw.











Even colleagues that weren't at school sent support!


We even got love during Lincoln's Walk Program today...thanks Tammy for sending them to me!





And then there are the ZPS families. Right now I have 74 emails in my inbox from parents/students (sorry, I know I won't have a chance to respond to all of them tonight 😊). Here are just few notes that were sent our way.






ZPS...I'm not even sure what to say other than I love you guys!

Tuesday, March 7, 2017

A Loss for Words

As I haven't posted for quite some time, I feel like I should have something profound or enlightened to say. But as the title of the blog post expresses, our family is at a loss for words right now. We have been shaken in the past couple of weeks, so I hope that you'll understand the brevity and bluntness of this post.

Surprisingly, as this is an outlet where I typically share about the boys and our journey with their health, our shock is not in regard to Sam or Kai. Instead, it is me. Recently, I have been diagnosed with breast cancer. **insert tears, frustration, anger, sadness**

I will be having surgery coming up this week, followed by chemo and radiation. We know that it's fairly aggressive, but we're hoping that we have detected it early enough to have an effective plan in place.

We covet your thoughts and prayers as, naturally, this is all so incredibly overwhelming right now. We have our plates full already caring for 2 children with chronic health issues; we definitely do not "need" this right now (not that anyone ever does!). However, it is evident that cancer doesn't care that we are already working so hard everyday to meet the physical, emotional, spiritual, financial needs of our family... but, our God does. We're trusting that He provides the strength to conquer this!


Wednesday, August 3, 2016

Make-A-Wish

This has been a tough week (ok, tough weeks). Insurance battles…respiratory treatments…blood clots. Those pretty well sum up what the past 3 days have been like.

In the midst of this, Chris and I had the opportunity to speak at a Make-A-Wish event tonight. We had the chance to share Kai's medical journey and how MAW helped to provide strength, joy, and hope throughout. 

Those that were involved in Kai's wish know the profound impact it had on him; he beams when he speaks of his playhouse and, most importantly, blue slide. Head on over to the Make-A-Wish Michigan website (michigan.wish.org) to see a picture of Kai that captures the essence of the joy this playhouse has brought. Certainly the wish itself has provided him with an escape--a chance to play and forget about not feeling well, something a child who has spent most of his life in institutions, either orphanages or hospitals, desperately needs.  

But, the process itself allowed him a healthy amount of control in a situation that seems uncontrollable.  There’s very little control for a young child in an orphanage; there’s no decision making in when and what to eat, when and where to sleep, what to wear. The list goes on. The same holds true for significant medical problems. Kai has no choice in medications, pokes, hospitalizations, and surgeries. He had a say in the blue slide…in having a climbing wall…in having sky and grass painted on the inside.  The barn playhouse with a blue slide gave him a voice.

This will make us forever grateful.

As such, we are looking forward to a couple events that we would like to extend an invitation to. These events support Make-A-Wish Michigan and, thus, kiddos like Kai.

The first is the Magical Wishes 5k. The race, which will be held on August 24, will take place in Hamilton. The proceeds from registrations will directly benefit Michigan kiddos waiting for wishes to be granted. Not only that, but the event is also organized by one of our fabulous Make-A-Wish volunteers, Trista!  Please visit the Magical Wishes Facebook page for more details and to register. (https://www.facebook.com/magicalwishes5k)

The second event is the 2016 Walk for Wishes. This is an official  Make-A-Wish Michigan annual fundraiser. We would LOVE for you all to join Team Kai and come out on October 1 to complete the walk with us. It has to be noted, too, that Kai's picture is featured on the walk buttons this year; that alone is worth coming out for, right?! 


The walk is an exciting stroll through John Ball Zoo. Registration for this is free. While registration is free, walkers are encouraged to get financial donations. If walking is not your thing, we would also appreciate donations. Registrations and donations can both be made on my personal fundraising page (http://wfww.kintera.org/2016/teamkai16) OR on the Team Kai page (http://wfww.kintera.org/2016/teamkai).
It’s important to note, too, that Make-A-Wish ensures that more than 80 cents of every dollar raised goes directly to granting wishes.


We hope you can join us to help make wishes come true! Go Team Kai! 

Thursday, July 28, 2016

Summer update

Since I posted last (which was in April!), we’ve had a multitude of triumphs and tribulations. Families of kiddos with significant health issues recognize all too well that life is a never ending roller coaster ride. There are days filled with excitement and exhilaration….and then the next uphill climb looms in the distance. Since April, Kai has had many “good days” where his oxygen saturations are stable (even in the high 90s—for heart moms and dads, you’ll recognize how awesome that is!), he remained seizure free, bowel movements were free from blood, and he was his typical exuberant self.  Conversely, he’s had many days where he resorts to tears (or screams) out of pain, discomfort, and frustration. I’ve lost count as to how many times he had cried, “Somebody just make me feel better”.  When he is able to get comfortable, all he wants to do is sleep.

The primary source of his agony right now is pulmonary related. Recently, breathing has become increasingly laborious, as his body is not able to move fluid, mucus, and particles from the lung. The result is chronic respiratory tract infection, excessive coughing, and low oxygen. Just yesterday, his oxygen saturation levels fluctuated between mid-high 60s, which made his heart work overtime, with heart rates over 200. To say he’s miserable would be an understatement! We’re hoping to aid his lung in clearing itself with the use of a respiratory therapy vest and airway clearance system. RespirTech, the device company, hopes to have the machine here in the next 2-3 days.

Additionally, there continues to be a GI component to his discomfort. While we have been conservative in managing his GI bleeding, it is clear this it is time to become more aggressive. Kai is scheduled for surgery on August 25. The plan is for that to be a bowel resection (pulmonology will also be going into the lung during the same surgery, as well as biopsy for bronchiectasis, damage of the airways).

As we continue to manage his many health issues, we have also remained in communication with genetics. As of Monday, we have begun a new round of testing. Well, first U of M will battle insurance to prove that it is necessary to continue genetic testing and then we’ll begin the actual testing!  While Kai was hospitalized in March, he had chromosome testing. The purpose of this test was to see if Kai had any chromosomal abnormalities, such as any additions or deletions in the number of chromosomes. The analogy the geneticist uses to explain it is to think about a set of encyclopedias. When you get a set of encyclopedias, you want to check and see that you have a complete set. To do so, you look on the outside of the books for volumes A to Z…but you never open it up and check the content…just be sure that you have all the books. Kai’s first set of genetic testing was similar to that—-just checking to see that everything is there. On Monday, to our surprise, we learned that this testing is normal; he has all 46! This new set of testing is like reading those encyclopedias for content, making sure that it says what it should and that it makes sense. Essentially, we will be working on reading all 25,000 or so of Kai’s genes, looking for mutations. As you can imagine, this is a much more tedious and prolonged process. We hope to have results by Christmas time.

Until then, we’ll just keep riding the roller coaster, hoping for more ups than downs! A few “ups” to celebrate:
*He’s down to 10 medications that he takes daily. I know that seems like a lot, but it’s such an improvement.
*A generous hospital and RespirTech who are helping us provide the vest/clearance system for Kai, since our insurance company does not cover “life-saving devices”, only therapeutic equipment.
*Since our last neurology appointment and change in medication, he has only had 1 seizure! 
* A fun and relaxing vacation. Kai was miserable, but at least we got to get away for a much needed break—no hospital visits for a week!

Speaking of our vacation, we have to share a few of our adventures…because who doesn’t want to hear about a place that this bridge leads you to?!



Thanks to the help a beloved colleague and resident expert on all things nature, Kathy Nemeth, we planned some time away in the Outer Banks, North Carolina. We knew Hatteras would be good for us…laidback, quiet, on the ocean. Here are some of our escapades:

Of course, we spent lots of time on the beach, which was literally just a few steps away from our lodging. Sam loved the ocean and salt water; Kai preferred to stay on the sand!












If the boys weren't play in the sand or water, they were fishing. I think they both found a new activity to enjoy together!







Our nights were filled with crab hunting!






Sam, our curious, nature lover enjoyed discovering all of creatures on the island. We had one rainy day, which was the perfect day to head to Cape Hatteras Lighthouse. While there we took a class on the island's sea turtle population and nesting sites.


Sam was excited to share the information he learned--what loggerheads eat, nest, can become "cold-stunned". He even decided spend his souvenir money on a stuffed sea turtle. His enthusiasm was contagious.  The following day as we returned to our room at night, we found that the staff left him a surprise after cleaning. Only in OBX would we find a towel turtle!

After getting the ok from the hospital, we boarded the Hatteras ferry to head to Ocracoke Island. It was a day filled with sun, good food, pelicans, and learning about Edward Teach (a.k.a. Blackbeard).







We also spent time kayaking in Pamlico Sound...sadly no pictures to share of those excursions. 

We're thankful for some time away. The ocean air definitely helps the spirit!





 
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